our story

A love ordained by God—shaped by grace, strengthened through growth, and overflowing with gratitude.

For years, we attended the same church without ever crossing paths. Then one summer

Sunday, by divine arrangement, we found ourselves seated next to each other. During the moment of sharing the peace, I gently tapped the man who would one day become my husband—Lucas—who, on that particular morning, had dozed off in church after a late night out. His nieces and nephews, amused by the scene, immediately began calling me “Aunty Pa.” Their playful teasing continued for some time.

Lucas, however, hesitated to approach me. My petite appearance at the time led him to believe I was under 18. It wasn’t until one Sunday when he saw our family doctor offer me a lift that a spark of jealousy finally gave him the courage to pursue my heart. With sincerity and determination, he won not only my affection but also the blessings of my parents and siblings.

Yet, at that time, I wasn’t ready for a new relationship, and I turned him down repeatedly. But when the world stepped into a new decade, I opened my heart—and allowed him to become the man God destined for me.

Having experienced the challenges of studying in French and leaving my university programme, I found myself uncertain about continuing my education. Lucas understood the value of education deeply. His advice, encouragement, and unwavering belief in me inspired me to return to school and resit my A Levels—something no one expected, given how stubborn I had been in my teenage years. By God’s grace, I excelled and secured the results needed to gain admission to a UK university.

Through his support, and with God’s strength, I went on to obtain both a degree and a master’s degree in social work—all while raising our growing family.

Today, we are blessed with nine beautiful children—three biological and four non-biological—each one a precious source of pride and joy. What makes this year even more extraordinary is that God has made it possible for all our children to finally live with us in the UK. This is why today is not just a celebration—but a triple celebration.

We are deeply grateful to God for the grace upon our lives. Our greatest desire has always been to make an impact, and we thank God for fulfilling the desires of our hearts. We are grateful for the family we have built and the life we continue to shape together.

Through the years, we have cultivated a bond grounded in mutual love, sacrifice, and unwavering faith. Our journey has not been without its trials, but we have remained committed choosing to grow, laugh, heal, and choose each other every single day with grace and patience.

The time we have shared is a blessing we cherish profoundly. We look at each other with gratitude and love, continually praying that God’s hand guides us always.

Indeed, God has been faithful.